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Shamseddin Giwa

Being a husband can sometimes be so challenging and difficult for men, they ask what a woman wants.

What do women want?

In no particular order and with variations depending on who is involved, women want:






1. ATTENTION: Women want to your attention when they talk and beyond. That genuine one that makes you listen, go beyond that and HEAR then go beyond that and let it bring desired actions/reactions.

2. MONEY: Forget love and all the deeper things for a second. Women want money and while many would still stay true to you when they don't get as much as desired, they, like men, want money (and this includes other forms of financial pampering).

3. COMFORT: This is often misunderstood for money but comfort goes beyond that (you can have money and not be comfortable). It is the ambience you create, which relaxes them and makes them feel at ease, and truly at home.


4. SEX: No, I am not talking about romance because even though that is key, this is proper proper depth touching, breath taking, mind blowing, wet, penetrative, bendy, sweaty sex that leaves them spent, filled and smiling with contentment. And it doesn't matter whether religious or not, women want sex.

5. CARE: Again misunderstood with money, this is that genuine feeling from the heart that makes you desire to be involved in every possible way, showing compassion and desire for growth and happiness for them.

6. PRESENCE: This, many think has a substitute. No matter what one is doing, time spent with her cannot be replaced. In the end, you can send her money and gifts but she needs you, present and available in body and in mind, paying full undivided attention.






7. SECURITY: Women want to feel secure in their space without having to worry over volatile behaviour or competition from any quarters.

8. RESPECT: Women want to be respected in how they are addressed and spoken to but beyond that, they want to be respected in how you treat them.

9. VOICE: Women want to have a voice. This is typically feared but even when decorum is being exercised, they want to know that the silence is their choice.


10. SUPPORT: Women want your support when they demand for it and sometimes even when they don't demand it or even realise they need it. Support to grow, get better and have life easier.

11. PATIENCE: Women want patience with them through personal journeys one may not fully grasp.

12. PEACE: Women want peace, that comes from knowing that with you, even when it all seems to be falling apart, there'd be a positive spark that makes it alright.





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